The Question
How can government help keep more women and children safe from harm?
My husband is a violent man and has served time for assault. I’ve got partial hearing in one ear from him hitting me. I know he’ll make good on his threats about what will happen to me if I leave, so I’ve been hanging in there for my 4 kids – all under 10.
Last night I walked in on him sexually abusing my eldest daughter. I have to protect my children, so that’s the final straw. I live in a small town where everyone knows your business. How do I make sure that we all get out safely and that the law is on my side?“
What can businesses do to help break the cycle of violence?
My work friend Sophie sometimes receives 20 – 30 texts or calls in a day from her partner. This morning she turned up to work wearing a high collared shirt despite it being hot and muggy outside. I could just make out bruises around her neck.
In the past, whenever I tried to talk to Sophie about it she’s completely paralysed. Today she finally agreed to let me find help. I do know she’s worked really hard to buy their house and I would hate to see her lose everything. I wouldn’t have a clue where to start. Who do I turn to?“
What can you do to ensure friends, family and neighbours have somewhere to turn?
I’m worried about my sister, Vicky. She’s having a really hard time with her husband, he’s a complete control freak. Vicky used to be bubbly and confident but now I barely recognise her. Their kids have also started acting out. Her son started kicking Vicky and I had to pull him up.
She told me she wants to leave her husband, but can’t afford it. She hates talking about it, but I think about it a lot. I’d blame myself if anything ever happened to her. I heard about the Women’s Legal Service. But I’m a bloke. Am I allowed to contact them? What can I do to encourage Vicky to get help?“
